‘If only that carpet could talk, the tales it would tell!’ But the Chikupi carpet was not going to talk, not just then, and nor was Ethnée Holmes à Court – well, not till I’d promised the carpet’s tales would remain within her cottage walls.
The carpet in question is a huge antique Persian that had spent many decades covering the lounge floor of a Zambian ranch – and which became famous for, well, lounging on in the early morning hours after one or another of the many house parties in the African bush. The story of how it came to be in Ethnée’s possession is told in Heytesbury Stud, but what I didn’t know then was that the Chikupi carpet and I would go on to spin tales of our own.
It was the last day of my ghosting assignment for Ethnée, the final draft approved, the last cheque written when she turned to me: ‘I’d like to give you something. Something with more meaning than money,’ she’d added. I hesitated. Like most of us, I’m not good at asking, but there was something she’d spoken of so often… ‘Ah yes,’ she said, her eyes glinting. ‘The Chikupi carpet. Let’s go and see if we can dig it out.’
A short while later we were in a shed at Heytesbury gazing down at a giant Persian carpet tightly rolled in a dusty corner. Her eyes glittered. She unrolled part of it with her foot. ‘Needs a good clean, that’s all.’
Ghosting
The invitation to write Ethnée’s second book had come about through an introduction by my good friend, the designer and glass artist Jill Yelland. ‘Ethnée Holmes à Court wants a ghostwriter and you write,’ she’d said. ‘And since you’ve both had several husbands, I thought you were a natural fit.’
Jill was spot-on. We were a good fit – not necessarily (or only) because of the husbands but because we discovered that we were born in the same part of Africa, were both passionate about horses. While Ethnée’s first book was about her time in southern Africa, she wanted this project to cover the second phase of her life – Western Australia and the founding of the renowned horse stud in which she played such a vital role: Heytesbury.
We liked each other instantly and fell into a routine just as easily. We started by sketching a framework of what we planned to cover. I had decided that alongside my PhD, tutoring and other commitments, I could draft a chapter a week so the way we worked was this: Ethnée would list the points she wanted me to write up and we’d sit side by side at the dining table of her little cottage to discuss them over many cups of tea before we filled out my picture of her past with walks and drives around the stud. When I think back to those weekly sessions, I remember lots of laughs and the unvarying diet of rather good egg sandwiches for lunch intently watched by ridgeback Lara and visited from time to time by Burmese Zhivago. I’d drive back to Perth, throbbing with ideas, mull and write over the next few days while back at the Stud, she would jot down the points she wanted to expand on the following week. It was an achievable formula that worked well for both of us.
I’ve often been asked what it’s like to be a ghostwriter and three points stand out. The first is that you are a ‘ghost’ – a privileged and (often) well-paid position – and while the writing is yours, that writing is subject to the tone, voice and character of the client. Secondly, what goes into and what stays out of the book is not your call. A ghostwriter, by definition and usually by deed, is anonymous: in the case of the Heytesbury book, I took up Ethnée’s offer of a byline. But if you’re the type of writer compelled to tell all –which, granted, very often makes a juicier tale – tackling an unauthorised biography might be the way to go. Thirdly, in my opinion, I can’t see how you can write someone’s story without liking, admiring – or at least respecting – your subject. Ghostwriting is not prescriptive – as in taking down an oral history, for example.
The carpet’s story
I could call it coincidence – that uncanny juxtaposition of events that occurred some years ago – a call from Ethnée just as Richard and I were unrolling the Chikupi carpet to cover the cold and inhospitable concrete floor of our new home. It had been unusual for her to call in all our working relationship and rarer still after the book was published. That day, she was confused and in great distress. ‘Something terrible’s happened,’ she said. ‘You have to help me. Come. Come now.’
This is not the place to describe the depth of her anguish, nor the effect it had on me. Suffice to say that this third and last phase of her life was to be as much or perhaps more of a challenge than anything that had gone before. Eventually she rose to it with her usual courage. She died last month.
My working relationship with Ethnée could be compared to riding one of her racehorses bareback, without a bridle and at great speed through untamed bush – an explosion of adrenalin and admiration. Of the several strong and fabulous women I have known, know and greatly admire, she was one.
Vale, Ethnée. May you rest in peace among the people, the horses and the pets you have loved.
Some years later, my own disturbance wrote itself out in And the Day After That. This is not Ethnée’s story, but the carpet and I grant that there are similarities in the circumstance.
Pic: Antique Persian carpet by PhilipCacka iStock Photos
How amazing! I have held on to a Persian carpet from my parents’ house in Northern Rhodesia (I was born there in 1951), now Zambia; the carpet has finally been consigned to be unused, is rolled up as it has become quite worn. I simply cannot part from it. Ethnee’s husband Lt-Colonel Ronnie Critchley and his wife Erica were known to us… Oh! so many decades ago. Yes – carpets could tell a book and its threads holds such tangible memories.
Hi Angela,
We now live on the farm here at Chikupi. My grandfather and father took over the farm.
I’m so interested to hear about any stories, photos. The old house is still going strong, and so is the farm and big horse stables, not much has changed. Dad has kept the history.
I would love to be in contact.
What a delightful surprise to find your comment waiting. I’ve spent the last couple of months completing my novel — the first based back in Africa! — and today was the first time I’ve been back to check my blog.
How amazing you knew Ethnee and Ronnie. At a writers’ congress last week, I met a lovely Southern Rhodesian woman — Jill Baker — who also knew Ethnee. The world gets smaller.
Talk about being worn: you should see the Chikupi carpet! Not only worn, but holey, too. For the last 25 years of her life — apart from the nursing home bit — Ethnee (and then Ronnie when he joined her) lived in a transportable with the result that the carpet has a triangle cut out of it where I guess it stopped a door from opening properly. And a neat hole chopped out, perhaps to accommodate a wobbly table. They were nothing if not pragmatic!
Where do you live these days? Please keep in touch. With best Tangea
Gosh! I have been looking back on some research, looked again at your Spinning stories, and it is now 2016. Happy New Year.
I live in England.
All best wishes,
Angela
If you do see this, am writing up Ronnie Critchley’s history in my history of conservation in NR and Zambia. Would you know when Erica Critchley died and where? And when did Ronnie marry Ethnee? By coincidence, her son, Simon, was a friend of mine in the Okavango.
Ian
How fascinating to hear from you Ian. I’d love to know how you came across my website.
Yes, I can certainly pass on what I know from ghosting Ethnee’s book ‘Heytesbury Stud: An Affair of the Heart’ published by Gary Allen in 2003.
There are a number of references to both Ronnie and Erica — both in terms of romance and their conservation efforts — and it might be worthwhile trying to get hold of a second-hand copy of the book if you can. It’s out of print here, I think, but last time I looked it turned up published by some Scandinavian press! I’m in the middle of my 71st house move but when I get myself sorted out, I can see if I have a spare copy.
Meanwhile, from Ethnee’s account
* Erica died from cancer some time in 1976 at their home in Blue Lagoon.
* Ronnie was heartbroken and took off to hunt in Scotland for a year or so before he arrived in Perth on Friday, 6th October 1978.
* Ronnie and Ethnee married in a registry office in Perth a month later.
In Ethnee’s words: “I dedicate this book to Ronnie, my beloved husband of twenty-one happy years. He died peacefully at Heytesbury on 27th August, 1999.”
I’m amazed that you were a friend of Simon’s. How Ethnee would have loved to have talked to you. You must know that he went missing and she moved heaven and earth to try to find out what happened to him. He was so different from his brother Robert: Ethnee called Robert and Simon her “sun and moon”. My brother-in-law Roger Wheater (lives in Peebles, Scotland) but was also in Africa for some time and also knew Simon.
The number of threads my books draw together is really quite extraordinary in an unnerving sort of way!
I hope this is of some help.
With best wishes
Tangea
Hi I.P.A. Manning (courtesy of Tangea’s comments)
You may be able to gain further information on Ronnie from his brother Reggie’s son who lives in the UK. Reggie married Margaret who is the grandmother of my husband. Do let me know if this seems a useful source and I can pass on details (perhaps out of the comments for privacy).
My husband and I lived in Perth in the mid 90s travelling down to Heytesbury to meet Ethnee and Reggie during our time there.
Best regards
Vicki
Hi Vicki,
Please may I reach out to you personally. I am trying to learn the history of the Old Farm – Chikupi where Ronnies first wife Ericas parents lived. We live there now.
Let me know.
Elizabeth
hello, greetings from Durban, South Africa.
I do war books as a hobby; see my website above.
please I am looking to contact anyone from the Critchley family.
Ronnie was in Burma and I would like a pic of him for one of my books.
very many thanks. Jonathan Pittaway